Archive for the ‘Joy’ Tag

Shopping in Nogales   Leave a comment

Joy Shopping in Nogales, Mexico — Image by kenne

You walk past the stalls,
shirts, saints, silver rings—
everything waiting to be chosen.

But it’s the shadows
that cling to you,
as if they know your name.

— kenne

The Demons Of Fear — Revisited   Leave a comment

Joy at Seven Falls (02/07/11) — Image by kenne

I first posted “The Demons of Fear” in December 2005 during the George W. Bush administration. What I was writing about twenty years ago is still very relevant today.

The Demons of Fear

Like many Americans, my formative years were at a time when communism was our only axis of evil. The reasons for qualifying as evil were many, e.g., starting wars against smaller countries, breaking international laws, torturing people, espionage organizations spying on their own people, controlling information, and building a giant prison industry, to name a few. Such reasons were easy to believe because of the simplistic notion that if communism (then) was evil, capitalism (we) was good. Therefore, we would never, never, never do such things. (Such acts are bad, and, of course, we are good!)

“Never say never!” Even more significantly, “. . . don’t make the mistake of believing your own lies.” Of course, in politics, the custom is “Never tell a lie when you can bullshit your way through.”

Truth cannot be found in talking points based on good vs. evil. This is the so-called “cowboy” mentality that our president and many in Congress have bottled and continue to sell to the American public.

Justifying acts based on false dichotomies only falsifies reality. But the convenient reversal of good and evil is an even bigger sin. One current example is our leadership’s support for the nomination of a judge based on his strict constitutionalist views while authorizing secret acts allowing spying on Americans.

Such secret executive decisions are troubling and represent an attitude of political convenience that considers nothing of treading on the basic liberties protected by our Constitution. Even after Congress passed the USA Patriot Act, which allowed our demons of fear to trespass on our liberties, the President pretentiously felt that additional infringements on the Constitution and our liberties were necessary.

Over three years ago, Lt. Gen. Michael Hayden (head of the National Security Agency) stated to a joint House-Senate inquiry on intelligence (ref. NY Times):

“We need to get it right. We have to find the right balance between protecting our security and protecting our liberty. “. . . What I really need you to do is talk to your constituents and find out where the American people want that line between security and liberty to be.”

Can we get it right? Can we bury our demons of fear? Can you! Can I?

For many, the politics of fear generates skepticism, which denies reliable access to an objective reality and “. . . therefore rejects the possibility of knowing how things truly are.” If reality has no inherent nature, then to “get it right,” each one of us must be true to our nature. Truth, like love, can exist only when the tombstones of our demons have been erected.

Existential Moment   Leave a comment

Joy In Her Existential Moment — Image by kenne

Ode to Reading

To read is to consent
to a kind of possession—
a consciousness overlapping yours,
momentarily indistinguishable.

Each sentence rearranges
your sense of the world,
as if the architecture of thought
could be borrowed,
then returned, slightly changed.

We call it solitude,
but it is not loneliness.
It is the purest form of dialogue—
one mind recognizing
the shape of another.

Books do not speak;
they inhabit.
You close one,
and still it whispers
behind your ribs.

Cruise Sunset   Leave a comment

Cruise Sunset (June 2023) — Joy Silhouette by kenne

The sun at her back
A setting sun silhouette
Is what she prefers

— kenne

 

Joy, My Desert Rose   2 comments

Joy, My Desert Rose — Image by kenne

A Red, Red Rose

O my Luve’s like a red, red rose,
That’s newly sprung in June:
O my Luve’s like the melodie,
That’s sweetly play’d in tune.

As fair art thou, my bonie lass,
So deep in luve am I;
And I will luve thee still, my dear,
Till a’ the seas gang dry.

Till a’ the seas gang dry, my dear,
And the rocks melt wi’ the sun;
And I will luve thee still, my dear,
While the sands o’ life shall run.

And fare-thee-weel, my only Luve!
And fare-thee-weel, a while!
And I will come again, my Luve,
Tho’ ’twere ten thousand mile!

— Robert Burns

(Robert Burns’ works have transcended time, with modern musician Bob Dylan citing Burns’ poem A Red, Red Rose
as having the lyrics that have had the biggest effect on his life. Source: Scotland.org)

Today is Joy’s Birthday   7 comments

Today is Joy’s Birthday. HAPPY BIRTHDAY, My Love

How Do I Love Thee? (Sonnet 43)

How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.
I love thee to the depth and breadth and height
My soul can reach, when feeling out of sight
For the ends of being and ideal grace.
I love thee to the level of every day’s
Most quiet need, by sun and candle-light.
I love thee freely, as men strive for right.
I love thee purely, as they turn from praise.
I love thee with the passion put to use
In my old griefs, and with my childhood’s faith.
I love thee with a love I seemed to lose
With my lost saints. I love thee with the breath,
Smiles, tears, of all my life; and, if God choose,
I shall but love thee better after death.

— Elizabeth Barrett Browning

The Woodlands Waterway   Leave a comment

Joy, Katelyn, and Dave, July 4, 2004

Do not live half a life
and do not die a half death
If you choose silence, then be silent
When you speak, do so until you are finished
If you accept, then express it bluntly
Do not mask it
If you refuse then be clear about it
for an ambiguous refusal is but a weak acceptance
Do not accept half a solution
Do not believe half truths
Do not dream half a dream
Do not fantasize about half hopes
Half the way will get you no where
You are a whole that exists to live a life
not half a life.

— Khalil Gibran

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, JOY!   4 comments

We Share Another Birthday, Together.

My Christmas Girl   Leave a comment

My Christmas Girl — Image by kenne

“Magic can be found everywhere,

if you know how to look for it. …

And where there is magic, there was hope.”

― Matt Haig

 

Birds, Banana, Joy, and Buddy Guy   1 comment

Joy — Image by kenne

Ode To Joy

Friedrich Schiller called Joy the spark of divinity
but she visits me on a regular basis,
and it doesn’t take much for her to appear—
the salt next to the pepper by the stove,
the garbage man ascending his station
on the back of the moving garbage truck,
or I’m just eating a banana
in the car and listening to Buddy Guy.

In other words, she seems down-to-earth,
like a girl getting off a bus with a suitcase
and no one’s there to meet her.
It’s a little after four in the afternoon,
one of the first warm days of spring.
She sits on her suitcase to wait
and slides on her sunglasses.
How do I know she’s listening to the birds?

— Billy Collins (In The Atlantic, November 2021)

Different Bodies, Same Minds   2 comments

Justin (the Photo Boomer), Joy, and Kenne, in Galveston — Image Scanned in 2006 from the Late 1980s

different bodies

same minds

unlike for B. B.

the thrill remains

— kenne

Mother and Daughter   2 comments

Jill and Joy (Daughter and Mother) — Image by kenne

“A daughter may outgrow your lap, but she will never outgrow your heart.”

An Anniversary Rose   3 comments

A White Rose To Joy On Our Anniversary — Photo-Artistry by kenne

The White Rose

The red rose whispers of passion,
And the white rose breathes of love;
O, the red rose is a falcon,
And the white rose is a dove.

But I send you a cream-white rosebud
With a flush on its petal tips;
For the love that is purest and sweetest
Has a kiss of desire on the lips.

John Boyle O’Reilly 

Joy and Robin — A Memory Flashback   1 comment

Joy and Robin (Hannah, April 14, 2004) — Image by kenne
Been going through some old photos — it’s that time of year.

Let’s Dance, Grandma   4 comments

“Let’s Dance, Grandma” — James and Joy (October 2, 2021)